Question

Why when somebody decides to choose another path are they labeled as "sick"??

About Religion

I'm not sure where to begin.

But I Wana talk about religion.
The first thing I'm going to say is, if your religious, you keep the Mitzvos, you follow the Torah rules, but is mean and not nice to other people, then you being Jewish and keeping all the Mitzvos doesn't matter one bit. Because God wants peace and kindness between us. That's all he wants. God doesn't care if your frum or not. He doesn't. We can agree to disagree.
Every person connects to God in another way. And every person has the right to choose wich way they want to connect. Whether it's keeping all 613 Mitzvos. To just keeping Mikvah. You MUST respect everyone.
In very short. If you think your a good person because your frum and keep everything but judge and talk about other people then your a price of s*** in my eyes and in God's eyes.
So remember not everyone is like you. You don't have to agree. All you need to do is RESPECT!!

From A Son To A Mother

I Miss You Mom
I miss you so much
When I first wake up in the morning
I wish i would see a smile on your face
Instead i get anxiety and start to pace
My mood goes down and up goes a frown
I wish you would accept me with your heart,
I yearn for your love, i yearn for your kiss, oh mommy  how much of you i miss.

The way you always managed
To make everything okay, until one day
When things got tough
i thought it wud get better.

But you never gave up, why me? why nqow?

Mommy where are you?
When the night sky is clear and full of stars,
I wish i was home and not hanging at bars

I wish i can tell u how i feel so lost and broken
Please take me back home.

Im trying to be good.
Im fighting.
Im fighting with all my might.

All im asking is for some love and the rest will come from above.
I love you Mommy dear, i need you here.

Where are you....

Is It My Son or Perhaps Me

Alot of things bother me. But this is what eats at me.
How many bucharim are found thrown out of home for reasons that make ZERO sense. And then the parents and family cry that they soak their pillow to sleep every night. Oy my son is not keeping Shabbos... isnt eating kosher... not wearing his hat and jacket....

Ya, you can take your son to Rebbes and get brachos, take him to therapists ... give him mussar lessons. None of that will help.

A child no matter the age craves a mothers love. A mother shouldnt love her child or not love her child according to his grade marks, his dresscode, his frumkeit.  Shame on those parents!! Every child is different. One will have payis and one wont. Your wondering, hmmm.... its 3am where is my 17yr old son???? Of course he doesnt want to come home to a yelling from his parents were he was and that they are not happy with him. Of course he stays out late until his parents are asleep.

No your son may not put his black pants on again, keep shabbos, light menorah or wear a yarmulka. But you definitely are not going to see him around much either. Until YOU change!!!

You want to stop crying about your son, then LOVE HIM!!!! LOVE HIM BECAUSE HES YOUR SON!!! LOVE HIM BECAUSE HE IS HIM!!! BE PROUD OF HIM, TELL HIM HOW GOOD HE LOOKS, SERVE HIM DINNER, SHOW HIM YOU LOVE HIM SHOW U CARE, GIVE HIM A KISS GOOD DAY AND YOU WONT BE CRYING AT NIGHT ANYMORE!!!!

HAPPY CHANUKAH MIRICALS DO HAPPEN!!

In Memory Of Our Lost One

I sit and wonder
There's so much lightening
So much thunder
When will things change
When will things change

Too many lives takin
Why we gotta be fakin
Suicide plans be makin

Drinking, pills, drugs
Gotta beg for a hug
Abandoned and alone
All I have is my phone

Just one pill
Just one tear
My end is near

I'm fighiting
Fighting with all my might
Holding on so tight
Where's the light

Cocain, heroin
That's the stuff
Did I not say enough

Can't you see my pain
Can't you see my hurt
My hearts gona burst

But now the joke is over
It's for real
Shoot it up my arm
Finally at peace
Finally gone.

PLEASE READ REGARDING SUICIDE AND CRISIS OVER THE HOLIDAY

IMPORTANT!!!
HEY EVERYBODY! PLEASE TAKE A MOMENT AND READ!! PESACH IS IN JUST A COUPLE OF HOURS AND ALOT OF US ARE SO HAPPY AND WE SHOULD BE. BUT ITS ALSO A HARD TIME FOR ALOT OF PEOPLE. IT'S A LONG HOLIDAY. PEOPLE CAN GET BORED, PEOPLE THAT ARE IN MENTAL HEALTH THERAPY ARE WITHOUT THERAPY FOR A LONG TIME, ITS FAMILY TIME WICH CAN GET VERY STRESSFUL AND MORE. IT CAN BE VERY HARD FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE ALONE OR HAVE DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY. YOM TOV IS A TIME TO CELEBRATE. AT THE SAME TIME GOD WANTS YOU TO STAY SAFE!!! SO PLEASE!!! IF YOUR HAVING AN URGE TO HURT YOURSELF OR SOMEONE ELSE, IF UR FEELING SUICIDAL PLEASE CALL HATZALA OR 911. YOU CAN CALL THE SUICIDE HOTLINE AND YOU CAN CHECK IN TO ANY PSYCH EMERGENCY ROOM TALK TO A PSYCHIATRIST.

SAFETY 1ST
YOM TOV 2ND

HAVE A GREAT PEASACH AND THANKS FOR READING!!!

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Are You Being Called A Goy?

Were u ever called a Goy by the neighbors on your block or somebody in shul because you don't wear a yarmulka? Or because you came to shul in jeans and a leather jacket? Or how about this 55 year old women called my son a goy because he was talking about dinosaurs and superman?! 

I mean seriously?!? Does my son have to be watching the" Yosef Shpeil" inorder to be considered jewish???? Does he have to be talking about the Parsha or Pesach all week long inorder not to be a "Goy"???

I was waiting on line in a store, and behind me was a little girl about 7 years old and her mother. And I heard the girl whisper to her mother "is ze a goy?" The mother replied  "ich veis nisht"!!! Ok so because I don't dress like you and because I'm wearing a red skirt she doesn't know if I'm a goy or not?!?!?! How about explaining to your kids and understanding for yourself that there are all different kind of jews and  because somebody talks about superman or wears red skirts doesn't mean your a goy!!

I mean are we people literary going to be ostracized and shunned upon because my kids read secular books and are educated or because his mother dresses more with it?!?!

No it's not my job to change my dress code because of YOU! But it is your job to respect ALL people even though you don't  "approve" of us!!

It's very hurtful to be called a "Goy" when I'm clearly not. And especially if you know them personally.

So it would be very nice if you can open your minds a little bit, and not call us "Goyim"!!!!

                         THANK YOU!