Were You Raped/Molested?

What happens to the girl who was raped/molested?
I'm going to be extremely open so if you can't handle this. Please close the page now thank you.

So if you were raped/molested as a child..... this guy makes himself all friendly to you and now ur already feeling protected by him. Basically your feeling comfortable.

Then he says come sweeti come on my lap and of course she goes. And he starts talking to her about what kind of toys she likes and whatever she will want he will buy her, and at the same time he puts her hands on her breasts and massages it and then he goes up her skirt all while distracting her with a fun conversation.

 What happens to the mind and body? The girls body can actually be feeling physical pleasure she might be feeling horny or turned on. She feels so safe with him that now he's got her!!!!!

What happens to the brain? The brain says, uh oh somthings doesn't feel right. She's not sure what it is. It just doesn't feel right. Well, her mind is right.....

Years go by she hasn't told anybody, its all burried deep inside. She even forgot about it. But her body didn't. How could that be???? This is how children's minds and bodys work when the were sexually abused.

So years go by.....they may feel attracted to girls and guys their not sure if their lesbian, bi or straigt. Their not sure about themselves. Who am I? What am I?

Time to date or get married, and your supposed to have sex. Right?
So, lets say she gets married and the chossen kallah/husband and wife are going to have sex on their wedding night. He's doing what he's supposed to, but the girl who was sexually abused, starts to shiver and shake because her mind took her back to the trauma. Or she dissociates meaning she left her body. She's not here. Her body was just reminded of the abuse that it was too hard for her mind to feel it again. she left. She looks extremely spaced out and it might even take a few minutes for her to come back to herself. Now the husband thinks she's nuts and has no idea what's going on.

Leme explain. When a child is sexually abused, how does the body cope with it? Through protection. Somthing in the brain happens that protects the child from feeling it or from letting it happen again. That's why when she tried to have sex, she couldn't there was somthing in her brain that was protecting her from danger. Not only aren't you able to have sex, alot of girls can't masturbate they have huge intimacy and identity problems. People end up with emotional disorders and all of that.

Basically it destroys you in every aspect of your life if you don't go for professional help. The suffering someone goes through is not even to understand and that's part of why there are so many suicides.

Sexual abuse is not a joke. Please always report your abuser and get help right away!!

*Stay strong
*Get help
*You CAN recover!!!

 I just wanna honor those people who have been raped or molested for staying strong and not giving in up! #JustKeepFighting #ShowTheWorld💪💪💪