Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Why Isnt "This" Spoken About?

   Unfortunately, there are so many sexual offenders within our community, maybe a stranger a teacher a Rabbi or perhaps a reletive sadly.
   When and how do we start preparing our children from this dangerous world?
   How do we go about protecting them?
Sex offenders touch and molest all ages. From comon tzaddick come sit on my lap, to putting them to "sleep". Using the bathroom in school. Who knows what's happening there? Who knows who's snapping pictures???
   In the CHASSIDISHA world its not accepted to talk about or educate our kids about sexual offenders  and about touching..... this is an aweful, horrible and wrong way to go!!!!
   There are ways to teach children when to run, when to scream. There are great utube videos to teach kids not to talk to strangers and when to say somthing feels wrong. (ill try to find the video).
   Every parent has a responsibility as soon as the child can talk and understand,  to teach him/her when to tell mommy.
    There are books and videos that can guide you.
     NOW WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE:
SEXUAL ABUSE-Sexual abuse, also referred to as molestation, is forcing undesired sexual behavior by one person upon another. When that force is immediate, of short duration, or infrequent, it is called sexual assault. The offender is referred to as a sexual abuser or (often pejoratively) molester.[1] The term also covers any behavior by any adult or older adolescent towards a child to stimulate any of the involved sexually. The use of a child or other individuals younger than the age of consent for sexual stimulation is referred to as child sexual abuse or statutory rape.
SEXUAL ASSAULT- Sexual assault is a crime of power and control. The term sexual assault refers to sexual contact or behavior that occurs without explicit consent of the victim. Some forms of sexual assault include: Penetration of the victim's body, also known as rape. Attempted rape.
MOLESTATION- (same as Sexual abuse.)
      
RAPE- Rape is penetration by force or against the will of the victim.
It's important to know the difference.
If anybody ever crosses boundaries or your child isn't acting right, check it out!
Always report!!!! It doesn't matter who it is!!!!https://youtu.be/f7GxbOvvtGY

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